Statuses about friends dating your ex
Ex boyfriend and I have started dating again, but we are both taking it slowly and still seeing other people.
He initiated the breakup, but also initiated contacting me again about a month ago.
We have a trip to Vancouver scheduled in two weeks.
After that I think I will have to back off and let him start feeling what it's like to not have me around again.
Admittedly we both had faults when we were boyfriend / girlfriend. We both agree what went wrong and dating this time around has been great.
The catch though is I don't know how long I should stay in this holding pattern until he is ready to commit again.
He's making more of an effort to tell me that he misses me and has feelings for me (he was never very good at this when we were an official couple). I've been following your excellent advice and doing my best to appear aloof and play a little hard to get.In that case then, how would he feel if dated other guys, if he says he doesn't have a problem, something is wrong, and because you love him, it may just hurt you. A month was about how long I was setting in my head as a "time to move on" date.Keep an eye on him for another month, and then you decide. I have to admit, I go back and forth about the Safety Net issue.Make sure while you assess, you are still reading, still going out and having fun, getting to know and understand you some more.You are wonderful to talk to on here, very intelligent and witty, I commend you for what you have accomplished so far, and I do feel with all the knowledged you have found by research and reading about matters of the heart, you are well on your way in finding love.